During the years, I have experienced crucial times towards others, I describe this time as power by that I mean someone is leading or someone is pressured into joining this idea. People generally go with what they feel comfortable in doing.
Let's give an example a new girl's first time in a public high school. She has always been in a small private school and now has entered a new beginning. This is an idea of the picture I am trying to portray.
Life will always show us the bright times and the dark days. With that being said, even if we have second thoughts, we will never give up. Many people think that others will follow their actions and actually accept them. The truth is far from the expectation, not necessarily with the thought out outcome. The picture is not yet complete. If you read the sentence carefully, it just shows that there is a new girl entering into a completely new environment. Not everybody is very comfortable with this idea because people always get a different picture in their head.
Girls and boys can be leaders in things or a part of a group. The hard part is how to fit in. That's probably the most common thing that comes to mind when you're new to a school, there's something missing in yourself: confidence. Without confidence in a person any big or little thing you do makes you think you're not good enough or you can do better.